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Monday, December 11, 2006


neglected to mention name of my blessed writer's group, who filled the fridge and brought the software....

It's North of 24th, and while we don't have a website yet, you will undoubtedly soon be hearing more about my very talented fellow members, with great books coming out by Julia Flynn-Siler, Frances Dinkelspiel and Susan Freinkel and inspiring essays by Lisa Okuhn, Sharon Epel, Leslie Crawford, Jill Storey and Katherine Neilan....

i may keep the bandages on a little longer

I have two broken arms, and my husband still can't remember to put the toilet seat down!
On the other hand, my kids are finally doing more chores, and I have never been so in touch with friends, some of whom have done the most generous things, such as filling up my refrigerator with meals and even giving me voice recognition software so I don't need to completely defy the doctor's orders. (The software, Dragon NaturallySpeaking, has worked out pretty well except for the times when it's like talking to a hard-of-hearing relative...)
One inspiring thing I managed to do last week was here a Murray love and speak no aim or read aloud than, oh I'm just going to type: I got to hear AMORY LOVINS speak at a benefit. He is the main brain behind the Rocky Mountain Institute, which is consulting with carmakers and even the defense industry to help get this country on a safer energy future. I highly recommend checking out their web site!

Monday, December 04, 2006

brkn arms

If 1 more person tells me the universe = tryg to tell me something, i'm going to swat them w/my casts......


Study Finds Working Parents Concerned about After-School Care, Companies Losing Billions in Job Productivity

One-third of labor force, including substantive numbers of both men and women, could be affected, adding to very costly workplace stress

NEW YORK, NY (December 4, 2006) – Millions of working fathers and mothers are less productive at work due to concerns about what their children are doing in the after-school hours, according to a new study released today by Catalyst, the leading nonprofit research and advisory organization working to build inclusive environments and expand opportunities for women at work. The report, entitled After-School Worries: Tough on Parents, Bad for Business, was conducted in cooperation with the Women’s Studies Research Center at Brandeis University.

The study outlines many factors that contribute to employed parents’ concern about the after-school hours (called “PCAST,” for Parental Concern about After-School Time) and the consequences both for parents and their employers. Though a majority of working parents are faring well, the report finds that both men and women are vulnerable at significant levels to the negative consequences of PCAST, which potentially affects one-third of the labor force, based on census data.

“PCAST is an equal-opportunity issue, cutting across gender, race, and rank, from factory floor to executive suite,” said Ilene H. Lang, President of Catalyst. “Ultimately, reducing PCAST is a win-win proposition. Businesses can increase productivity and retention in today’s round-the-clock work environment by cultivating an agile, results-focused workplace, where work and life responsibilities aren’t mutually exclusive.”

With over 52 million working parents in the United States, PCAST contributes to worker stress that costs businesses between $50 billion and $300 billion annually in lost job productivity. This loss in productivity is manifested in a range of indicators, from minor disruptions to lower overall job satisfaction, according to the report. The study indicates that potentially at least 2.5 million working parents are overly stressed by PCAST and are particularly likely to bring their concerns to the workplace. These concerns, according to the study, are exacerbated for parents who have more responsibility for childcare in the household, who work longer hours, and whose children are older (grades 6 – 12) or spend more time unsupervised.

According to the report, based on a survey of 1,755 employed parents (44.7 percent fathers, 55.3 percent mothers) who work at one of three Fortune 100 companies across the United States, there is much that companies can do to protect employees against PCAST. When employees have control over their work schedules, for example, they are less likely to experience high levels of PCAST. Over three-fourths of the respondents said that the flexibility to arrive at work later, leave work earlier, or take off part of a workday when necessary significantly reduces general levels of PCAST.

Yet workplace supports are only effective if employees know they exist. The study found that many working parents are not aware that certain supports are available. The fear that taking time off for family reasons and using flexible work arrangements could jeopardize opportunities for advancement further prevents many working parents from taking advantage of available supports. Other Catalyst research shows that even women and men in leadership positions feel that using flexible work arrangements could jeopardize their careers.

Work programs and policies that reduce after-school care stress are often not costly to implement and offer a great deal of “bang for the buck,” the study asserts. Such supports are not targeted solely to parents of school-aged children; almost all employees rate flexible work programs as helpful.

Catalyst believes that employers of choice can prevent unnecessary worker stress and instead invest in productive employees and a more effective, agile workplace – the key to a sustainable organization. Strategies include:

Developing “The Agile Workplace,” placing emphasis on more job control enabling employees to “work smart” and perform better, focusing on goals and results, and granting all employees access to flexible work programs, including flex-time, telecommuting, and flex-space
Expanding supports that are specifically related to after-school care and investing in community services that support after-school care programs
Transforming workplace culture by better educating supervisors and managers about the benefits of an agile workplace and how they can support working parents
Actively communicating the availability of supports
Openly addressing misperceptions about any consequences of their use

Catalyst recommends that working parents better educate themselves about current or prospective employers’ policies. According to the study, they should inquire as to whether a company offers supports like the ability to telecommute on a regular basis, subsidies for after-school care, volunteer leave, back-up after-school care, and bankable hours, among others.

The study notes that preventing and reducing PCAST is supported by a compelling business case that, in turn, supports the health and well-being both of parents and organizations.

This study was sponsored by Citigroup, Fannie Mae, and Pfizer corporations.

Please visit Catalyst’s website, www.catalyst.org, for the full report.


2 brkn arms

on friday as i was racing to bring my 2nd grader his violin, in the babyseat of my bike, i braked suddenly & flew over the handlebars, landing on my outstretched hands & fracturing both of my radii. doc sez i shdn't type for a week but here i am --obviously part of what the universe is trying to tellme to stp doing-- becuz the webmaven just told me this site, i don't blve it,but he sd the site is getting 100 hits a day. ...
which seems like an obligation.
i know i shd probably be sitting back & just trying to take in this powerful message,whatever it is! maybe the world **doesn't** need me, or anyone, to be doing quite so much....
on the other hand, when i got to the class w/the violin (not on bike anymore) another mom, a saint, took me to the ER & spent the next 5 hours w/me. we talked the entire time. and whn i got home another mom who;d had my 2nd grader on a playdate had cooked both me & the saint dinner. so i also feel inclined to interpret the universe's message as to do **more** --once i get my arms back--for other people, becuz that is such a glorious m.o.
i'll kp trying to figr it out. stay tuned...